The Illusion of Comfort. Your Arch Nemesis.
Creator: Sandro Botticelli (1445–1510) | Credit: Wikimedia Commons
Hundreds of faces. Thousands of places.
And one shared thread: degradation, stagnation, and regression.
Mediocrity isn’t always an innate thing. It’s not necessarily bound to you at birth, like a malevolent curse. Often, it seeps in through the cracks as they form from a leak.
It’s like a breach of contract over the silent promise you made. The one you etched on the tree of life as you shouted,
“I’ll be the best version of myself!”
deep within.
What caused the perforation of the fabric? The failure to uphold your standards?
Some of you may not even recognize that you’ve given up. That’s because this beast is clever. This threat, insidious.
Congratulations, you are the latest victim of the illusion of comfort.
In your glorious days, you accomplished a lot. Milestone after milestone. A radiant display of consistency. Discipline. A strong body and an enduring mind. Massive brainpower. Groundbreaking visions. Accolades.
You may or may not have been financially rewarded. But regardless, you started believing (unconsciously) that you plateaued—and there, you stopped trying.
Things are comfortable now. You’ve done your share after all, and deep down, you carry this belief that you’re
too big to fail.
That you can no longer shrink.
At this very moment, you misread the room. You associate self-care with procrastination, past accomplishments with a lifetime legacy, risk-taking with avoidance.
Soon, you are no longer the force to be reckoned with in your circles. No longer the fierce contributor that proactively defines what keeps you alive. You’ve lost your fire.
It’s a rabbit hole you fall into. You neglect your appearance. You lose your momentum. You sever vital relationships. And all because you thought this shit was sweet.
Wake up!
You have a long life ahead and a destiny to fulfill. The world still needs your contributions, your achievements, your inventions.
This Earth is the sum of all. Each life is instrumental in making the world a better place. You may not notice the damage at your level, but it resonates on a grander scale.
Don’t get too comfortable. Never assume that you hold the world’s knowledge in your palm—that you are above learning and correcting your course when needed.
Improvement is a transient dynamic. It is absolutely necessary. Criticism is good. Revising your positions is a must.
Challenge yourself every day. Explore unfamiliar processes and methods. Actively seek feedback and knowledge. You may be the next Einstein, equipped with a stratospheric IQ, but that doesn’t make you impervious to oversight.
You are human at your core.
Deny an inflated ego its ration and shatter the boundaries of this comfort zone you’ve caged yourself in.